Dard e disco

But isn't the charm of living together possible to be conceptualised, under the same roof ?

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If required one can even savour the sweet taste of parenthood.On the other hand,this concept is also marked by a significant loss of self-responsibility,identity etc.,The absence of a proper understanding between the couple is indeed an irritating factor which takes its toll on the offspring(s) too.

Yes,I do agree that 'jhagras ' do really happen between a married couple - the effect on children is also significant - but the BONDAGE factor is strong enough to prevent any partner in marriage to quit all of a sudden ,provided the circumstances are not that extraordinary.

However,this danger of quitting lurks significantly in the LT concept.Because.......the inherent philosophy behind adopting such a concept is itself ridden with the possibility of disintegration.The ' I DON'T CARE ' attitude is sufficient enough to put a question mark on committment and leaving lock,stock and barrel.

Further,our value-based societal infrastructure has still not put its stamp of approval on this LT concept.Our culture and tradition are so much deep-rooted that before indulging in the act,the ' BUT' factor still reigns supreme.

I feel that it is an outcome of a momentary impulse between two consenting adults with the ' back to pavillion' thought haunting one corner of the mind.Marriage therefore appears to be the only way out to attain legal and societal recognition.

Lekin.....hold on....the million dollar question is :

JUST WHO SHOULD TAKE CHARGE ?

Till then.......refresh yourself.....have a cool,cool drink....sochiye...but please do take care of yourself.

will be back.